9 Lesser-known things that make a relationship worse

Unspoken Expectations: Assuming partners should know what you want without communication can lead to frustration and misunderstandings.

Comparison to Others: Comparing your relationship to others’ can create unrealistic standards, fostering discontent and envy.

Over-relying on Memory: Trusting memory over present behavior can lead to harboring outdated grudges and misjudgments.

Avoiding Small Conflicts: Dodging minor disagreements can snowball issues. Addressing them early prevents larger future disputes.

Passive-Aggressive Behavior: Indirect expression of discontent prolongs issues and can erode trust and open communication.

Excessive Self-reliance: Not sharing burdens or seeking help can isolate partners, making them feel disconnected or undervalued.

Neglecting Personal Growth: Solely focusing on the relationship and ignoring personal development can lead to stagnation and resentment.

Overvaluing "Grand Gestures": Relying on big gestures can overshadow the importance of daily acts of love and understanding.

Using Relationship as Identity: Losing individual identities by over-merging can cause dependency and hinder personal and relational growth.