Valentine day week has started. Couples and lovers, likeevery year, wish to make the most of this week. Propose day is celebrated afterRose day. You can propose the love of your life on propose day. However, it isnot a hard and fast rule that you will have to propose them on this day but onValentine's day, usually the love fills the air, you can take advantage of it.
It has become extremely important to propose yourpotential partner in such a way that it is unique and heart-touching because inan online environment, there are a lot of ways to propose your partner but youare likely to succeed in your attempt in a real time environment also. As theCovid-19 cases are not rising sharply in India, you can expect people taking itas a cue and thronging places where love birds usually go.
There are places around the city where you can take yourpartner and propose them in a most romantic and sincere way. Although, you haveto make sure that the person whom you love has feelings for you becauseotherwise the situation becomes tricky. Usually, people believe in love atfirst sight or some propose their best friends but sometimes situations get thebetter of it and the relationship worsens instead of sowing a seed of love.
You have to make sure that you are not over-thinking andyou are sincere in your attempt.
Whatyou should know before proposing the love of your life?
Honesty isthe keyword that a lover should keep in mind. Deceptions using false ormisleading information about yourself might help you in the short term but youare likely to fail in the long term. You will not be successful if your attemptis to deceive your lover or potential partner who you are thinking to propose. Behonest and express your feelings with honesty.
Neverseek a piece of advice from others: because we usually fretbefore proposing and go to our friends to ask about their experiences. Youshould keep in mind that everybody goes through ups and downs and everybody hastheir own experiences. You have to go with your instinct.
Knowyour lover in and out: Knowing your beloved is no mean feat. Ifyou both study in a same college or go to a same office, you should probablyobserve your lover. Observing what they like or dislike help you at the time ofproposing. It also helps you in starting off at a positive note because yourlover will value you if you are keen on knowing them.
Nevermake them feel awkward: People usually follow and stalk theirlovers. They forget giving a space to them. You should know that it isextremely important to live and let live. Never ever follow or stalk the loveof your life. They should not get an inkling that you are following them unnecessarilywithout professing anything. If you need to talk to them, just go and politelyask out for a coffee or brunch.
Onlinegestures matter: In an online environment, you can send yourlover a friend request on social networking sites but never order or demandsomething in particular that doesn't go well with their freedom of expression.After people propose their love, they usually ask them to un-friend their maleor female friends. It is childish. Behave like a mature person.
Avoidsilly mistakes: Never take anything personal if you are inlove. Just avoid silly mistakes. What if your potential partner comes late onyour first date? What if they have mistakenly spilled coffee on the table? Whatif they are having a bad day and could not understand your point of view? Justgive each other sometime and go with the flow.
Howshould you propose?
Although, no one can give advice to people regarding howto propose the love of their life because some people usually want everythingspecial while others believe in simplicity. Some want a romantic date before proposalday while others want a quite meeting in a park.
Ask directly and without any fear because love is not acrime but you have to respect and value the decision made by your lover.
You can cook for your lover and plan a romantic dinner ifyou know them already. If you are already friends, just make sure it doesn'truin your friendship. Flowers are usually nice. Observe what do they like. Youcan sing a song, write a letter and even make the most of sunset or sunrise.Take your lover to a lake and honestly profess your feelings.
No one formula is good for everyone. Even the mostmechanical proposals are not good. Purity of emotions matter. One tip in theend: value the decision taken by your lover. Give some time to them becausesuch decisions should never be made in haste.